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AARP and RISD showcase ADU concepts and designs on Smith Hill

Published in RINewsToday on January 29, 2024

During a 45-minute press conference held Thursday in the Library of the Rhode Island State House, AARP Rhode Island and Rhode Island School of Design (RISD) showcased a RISD student design competition displaying Accessory Dwelling Unit (ADU) designs created by 10 RISD student teams, consisting of 10 students per team.

The ADU concepts were developed following a prompt that RISD and AARP RI posed to Interior Architecture students in November, challenging them to develop creative ADU concepts that would illustrate the range of benefits this housing option can offer for people to age in place at home. Unveiling these ADU concepts at the Jan 25th press conference just one hour before a scheduled hearing of the House Committee on Municipal Government that would hear seven bills related to zoning standards for ADUs was just a coincidence, says AARP Rhode Island State Director Catherine Taylor, noting that the design project began over one year ago.   

One of the scheduled bills, H 7062, reintroduced by Rep. June S. Speakman (District 68, Bristol/Warren), chairwoman of the House Commission on Housing Affordability and strongly supported by House Speaker K. Joseph Shekarchi (District 23, Warwick), would boost the state’s housing production by helping boost housing production by helping Rhode Islanders to develop ADUs on their property. It would provide homeowners the right to develop an ADU within the existing footprint of their structures or on any lot larger than 20,000 square feet, provided that the design satisfies building code, size limits and infrastructure requirements.

Lawmakers, state officials, municipal planners, affordable housing advocates, members of the AARP Red Rhode Island Team, and aging advocates, gathered in the packed library room to view the well-considered designs unveiled at the press conference. At the conclusion of the event, it was announced that Team Seven’s design concept was selected by a panel of judges.

Advocating for ADU-friendly state zoning laws

“You see here today some truly innovative ADU concepts,” said AARP Rhode Island’s Catherine Taylor, who served as the press conference’s master of ceremonies. “The RISD Interior Architecture students have earned our admiration for both their creativity and their clear understanding of the housing needs of older adults, she said, thanking RISD faculty members – led by Wolfgang Max Rudorf and Elizabeth Debs – who embraced this project.     

“People thinking of downsizing, hoping to be near families and caregivers, or wanting to stay in a familiar community as they grow older, are very interested in ADUs as flexible and affordable housing options,” said Taylor.

“The inspiring work by these talented RISD students will help raise awareness of the many ways ADUs can be designed to meet the needs of older Rhode Islanders and their families,” adds Taylor. “We’re delighted to display these exciting designs at the State House so that lawmakers and their constituents can see for themselves why ADUs make so much sense.”

House Speaker Shekarchi noted that the design proposals were a great way to leverage some of the incredible talent in Rhode Island to find creative solutions to one of the state’s biggest challenges, its housing crisis. “The competition also raises the dialogue – it gets people talking about ADUs, how they can add to our community, and how they can be functional and created,” says Shekarchi.

Looking back, Shekarchi told the packed room that the House passed legislation to make it easier for homeowners to add an ADU to their home. “Unfortunately, it did not pass the Senate, but I’m hopeful we can get it over the finish line this year,” he pledged.

Senator Megan E. Kallman (District 15, Pawtucket, Providence), who sponsored ADU legislation in the lower chamber last year, came to the press conference to “check out some amazing student generated ADU design concepts,” calling ADUs the absolute game changers. “Their benefits extend to all corners of our communities… and people of all ages, from all walks of life.”

Senator Victoria Gu (District 38, Westerly, Charlestown and South Kingston), who is expected to introduce H 7062’s companion measure in the Senate attended the press conference, identifying ADUs as a key component of housing supply. “When you look across the country, ADUs will get people housed in the short term because they are faster to construct or renovate when compared to new construction. We need that solution here now more than ever,” she said.

Like the other speakers, Rep. Speakman observed that “ADUs is an easy idea to run with,” taking allocating her time at the podium to thank and address the RISD students who participated in this project. “Architects often tell me that form follows function. We told you what the function is and you have given us beautiful form.  This helps us to make our case for ADUs to those who are unfamiliar with the form.  They can take a look at your work to see how they can beautifully fit into neighborhoods into yards, notes Speakman, a political science professor who teaches at Roger Williams University.

Marianne Kelly, a legislative advocacy volunteer for AARP who has lived in a few ADUs over the years, sees this housing option as a creative solution to address a housing shortage that disproportionately impacts seniors. “Utilizing existing space to create alternate solutions just makes sense,” she told the attendees.

“In the Interior Architecture department at RISD, we look for opportunities to use design as a way to explore pressing community needs with collaborators who are experts in their fields,” noted faculty member Elizabeth Debs. “AARP has been stellar to work with – in only a few days, students quickly learned important strategies for aging in place, as well as universal design approaches they will be able to use throughout their careers.,” she says.

According to Debs, the sophisticated and nuanced proposals showed an understanding of designing for a range of populations and abilities, and created sensitive, barrier-free designs that focused on well-being. “The students really absorbed the important issues presented by AARP and demonstrated empathy for the different populations that need ADUs through the designs,” she said.

ADU Contest Criteria

RISD Interior Architecture faculty encouraged student teams to create designs with an overall goal of thoughtfully increasing the production of ADUs that support aging in place. Criteria included:

Siting Consider the relationship to primary structure and neighboring lots through design to enhance privacy and a balance between independence, safety, and support. When siting the structure consider paths of access, solar orientation, view lines, impact to the site/landscape, and access to vehicles.

Diverse family and household types Accommodate the needs of older adults, disabled persons, caregivers, and renters.

Age-Friendly Design for aging-in-place by incorporating age-friendly features. The size and use of these dwellings will require that they be single story, and reachable via a graded entry. Proposals should include universal design features and be adaptable over time.

Affordability Encourage designs that are lower cost to construct and maintain to make them financially accessible to households with the widest possible range of incomes.

Sustainability Plan for long term environmental impacts, including initial construction, life cycle considerations, material selection, energy and resource conservation etc.

Innovative construction methods Support new construction and delivery methods, such as panelized, modular, or prefabricated homes.

At a minimum, the ADU designs were expected to include facilities for food preparation and eating, bathing and toileting, sleeping, recreation, storage, utilities, and outdoor use. The building size may vary from a minimum of 350 are feet to a maximum of 900 square feet.

“The AARP Livability Index shows that all communities have room to improve to ensure that residents of all ages are active, engaged, and supported, particularly when it comes to affordable housing options,” said Rodney Harrell, PhD, AARP Vice President of Family, Home, and Community. “Everyone has a role to play – from community members to researchers, to local advocates and policymakers – to help fill the gaps between what people want and need and what their communities provide, so more older adults can live independently.”

“We must reframe how we think about housing as we grow older, and ADUs are part of the equation,” added Taylor. “Aging in community is possible if homes can be modified to accommodate changing needs. Our cities and towns must have housing options that are suitable for differing incomes, ages and life stages. ADUs are one way to accomplish this goal.”

To watch the press conference, go to: https://capitoltvri.cablecast.tv/show/162?site=1.

 

ADUs at RI State House: See RISD designs of Accessory Dwelling Units. Hearing to follow.

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Passages – Life and Times of Morris Nathanson

Published in RINews Today on October 7, 2023

Painter, Illustrator and Restaurant/Hospitality Designer Morris Nathanson’s artist studio is just a stone’s throw away from his childhood home on Japonica Street in Pawtucket, Rhode Island. Growing up poor during the depression in his Pleasant View neighborhood, settled by Armenian and Syrian immigrants who worked in the surrounding mills, he would see his home and surrounding properties demolished to make way for Interstate 95. This made him skeptical of the policy of Eminent Domain, as it left his family and neighborhood languishing for years in expected dread of demolition, years before it was to occur, destroying the spirit of his neighborhood. It was this singular policy that encouraged his work in historic preservation.

Morris, raised in a Jewish household, was a lifelong adult member of Temple Beth El on Providence’s East Side.  He practiced his faith throughout his life including the orthodox values taught to him by his mother. 

Morris, a spitting image of Mark Twain, or maybe even Albert Einstein, because of his distinctive head of hair, always wore colorful bow ties, considered by many to be his trademark look. He was a man who made a definitive impact on the international art and design scene. In the City of Pawtucket, he was the force that initiated the City’s art scene by bringing the strategy of adaptive reuse of underutilized and vacant mills to city officials, a concept he learned from his years of working in New York City as a restaurant designer and watching the development and transformation of the industrial mill buildings in SOHO.

My friend, Morris, passed away peacefully at the ripe old age of 95 in September, one year ago.

Over two decades, this writer would visit Morris on Saturday afternoons sitting in his living room drinking cups of freshly brewed coffee. The cozy room is surrounded by large bookcases jam packed with literary classics, architectural, art and design books, and walls filled with artwork he created throughout the years, and of course the piles of newspapers, specifically the New York Times, Boston Globe and Providence Journal, that he read daily.  We would talk about Pawtucket, world events, and he would reminiscence about his amazing life’s journey from his childhood in Pawtucket, to the international world he lived in later in his life.

The War Years

Morris was motivated to enlist in the military service because of the Nazi’s policy of exterminating all Jews. His family was aware that they lost many of their relatives in Europe as they were transported to the concentration camps where they perished.  

Walking into the Pawtucket post office on Montgomery Street, registering for the draft at age 17, with the required parental approval to enlist in the Navy, he, like many young boys, left Pawtucket East to fight in World War II.

This memory never faded from his mind.

After his basic training at Sampson Naval Base in upstate New York, half of his class of Navy recruits were assigned to the U.S.S. Catamount (LSD 17) and the other half were sent to the U.S.S. Indianapolis. The U.S.S. Indianapolis was a Portland-class heavy cruiser which was charged with a top-secret mission – to deliver the uranium and other components for “Little Boy,” the first nuclear weapon to be used in combat, to Tinian Naval Base.  The bomb would be dropped on Hiroshima the following week.  After the ship’s departure to the Philippines for training duty, it was sunk by a Japanese submarine. Sinking in just 12 minutes.  Out of the 1,195 crewmen onboard, only 316 survived.  The survivors faced injuries, dehydration, and shark attacks. It was the luck of the draw for Morris to be assigned to serve on U.S.S. Catamount, and not the U.S.S. Indianapolis.

Morris remembered the U.S.S. Catamount among hundreds of naval ships in Tokyo Bay, carrying special equipment to be used during the occupation of Japan. His ship would ultimately not have to participate in the all-out ground invasion of Japan because of the dropping of the atomic bombs on Hiroshima and Nagasaki.  His ship was one of 260 vessels of the Allied navies present in Tokyo Bay when Japanese officials on the U.S.S. Missouri signed the declaration of surrender on Sept. 2, 1945.

With Japan’s surrender, the members of Morris’ crew were sent on shore to rout out any Japanese soldiers hiding in caves.  A terrifying moment for Morris occurred in the caves, not from meeting enemy soldiers, but realizing he was lost and he couldn’t read the signage written in Japanese. Fortunately, fate smiled on Morris and brought him out to safety. 

On a light note, during his Naval service Morris was recognized by his crewmates for his artistic talent.  He was always selected to do any assignments involving illustrations.  His favorite project was designing Mother’s Day cards for his shipmates.

Fighting Antisemitism and Civil Rights for All

Experience aboard the U.S.S. Catamount gave this young medic his first awareness of systemic racism.  Witnessing first hand man’s biases and prejudices motivated him throughout seventy-five years of his long life to fight for the equal rights of all.  Morris’s civil rights activism solidified his belief that human rights are essential to life and recognized that they must be consistently fought for.  Which he did.

Morris participated in the Freedom Rides of 1961, Dr. Martin Luther King’s campaigns in Selma and Birmingham, Alabama, and the March on Washington for Jobs and Freedom.  For anyone not familiar with the dangers and complexities of these marches – these courageous civil rights activists were subjected to threats, beatings, mass arrests, bombings and even murder.  Our criminal justice system in the 60s more often than not, turned a blind eye to the plight of those protesting against these injustices.

When Morris was discharged in 1945, like so many servicemen, he took advantage of the GI Bill, enrolling at Curry College in downtown Boston.  During his second year, with his best friend, Donnie Shear, they began to seek out Colleges, “anywhere warm” he would say.  They ultimately transferred to University of Miami.

At the University of Miami, he earned a Bachelor of Arts (BA) in Theatre and Fine Arts.  He was a member of Alpha Epsilon Pi, a Jewish fraternity on campus.  He later went on to the New School for Social Research in New York City to study Theatre.  At that time, he wanted to become a playwright and director for the New York stage but fate would bring him back to Rhode Island with a call from his mother asking him to return to help her provide for his younger siblings.

Finding a Niche in the Design Sector

Ultimately, the young college graduate took his first job as a social worker in Providence.  Morris worked for two years in the Charles Street neighborhood assisting struggling Italian families and although his supervisor offered to send him to graduate school in Boston to get a Bachelor of Social Work degree, he instead decided to follow his dreams and passion (suggested by his high school teachers) to become an artist.

Rhode Island would be pivotal to Morris by guiding him into his new profession.  His first design job, sort of like a one degree of separation, began when his brother Abe decided not to accept a job offered by the Providence-based Paramount Restaurant Supply Co.  When Morris heard this news, he went and applied for the job the next day and got it. This job officially propelled him into the restaurant design sector, working with the best, David Friedman, owner of Paramount Restaurant Supply Co.

Friedman had one of the largest design shops on the East Coast. The company designed case goods for numerous department stores in New York City, which had luncheonettes and restaurants.  Interesting enough, Morris’ first designs were drawn on paper napkins in front of his new clients.  However, that was very short lived as Morris immediately undertook developing a serious design department.

At age 24, Morris, head of the design team at Paramount, developed and designed the first franchise in American history, Dunkin Donuts. While working with Friedman he also designed restaurants in the pavilions of the 1964 World’s Fair in Flushing Meadows, New York.

When Morris left Paramount Restaurant Supply Co, he retained his relationship with Friedman which became a lifelong friendship. His artistic flair and design talents were brought out in his new company, Morris Nathanson Design, ultimately attracting clients throughout  Rhode Island, the U.S., and later, internationally.   

His most notable design projects locally include Hemenway’s, Ruth Chris Steak House, 22 Bowen, restaurants and bars for the Inn at Castle Hill, Capital Grill, Pizzeria Uno, Joe’s American Bar & Grill, Mills Tavern, Waterman Grill, Red Stripe and for those who still remember, the beloved Ming Garden and McGarry’s Restaurant in downtown Providence.  He also had clients in the legal, medical and retail sectors.

Well-known clients outside the Ocean State included Nathan’s Famous, B.B. King Blues Club, Carmine’s, Docks, Rue 57, Oceana, Virgil’s and Angelo and Maxie’s in Manhattan and the Hyde Park, New York-based Eveready Diner featured on the Food Network’s “Diners, Drive-in and Dives” television series.  Another accolade for the Eveready Diner is the 1995 visit of President Clinton and Russian President Boris Yeltsin to the diner for a meal during their summit held at the summer cottage of Franklin Delano Roosevelt, whose property is across the street from the diner. 

Morris was also instrumental in the ongoing development of Johnson & Wales University.  School leaders asked him to visit the renowned chef, Louis Szathmary, owner of The Bakery, in Chicago and a New York Times best-selling cookbook author, “The Chefs Secret Cookbook,” to review his extensive culinary collection which filled two Brownstones in Chicago.  Morris persuaded Szathmary to donate his entire collection of culinary memorabilia  to Johnson & Wales University and convinced the University to build a museum to house thousands of the historic artifacts that he so graciously donated.

An Early Advocate for Mill Adaptive Reuse

Morris did not forget or leave his old Pawtucket neighborhood.  With his offices in Providence, he would later return to his roots in the blue-collar community of Pawtucket and purchase the decaying Rhode Island Cardboard Manufacturing complex, now known as Blackstone Studios, just across the street from his former high school, East High, now Tolman High. 

Morris’s historic mill sits by Pawtucket’s Veterans Memorial Amphitheatre, an outdoor music venue he designed at Roosevelt and Exchange Street. Then the Exchange Street Bridge was later renamed the Morris Nathanson Bridge in his honor in 2010.

Over the years, Morris and his wife Phyllis renovated the former manufacturing mill building (ultimately located in Pawtucket’s 307-acre Arts and Entertainment District) to become the new headquarters of Morris Nathanson Design and also created artist studios and lofts, gathering a community of artists to live and work.  These artists and craft persons, residing in his mill, would become independent contractors of his design firm and would be hired to work with his company on many restaurant design projects. His clients loved this concept because it made it easy to manage all their design needs in one building. 

With the experiences learned in redeveloping their mill, Morris and his wife, Phyllis, took on developing the former Lebanon Knitting Mill and Vesta Underwear which sat on the banks of the Blackstone River.  The project is now known as Riverfront Lofts which houses 59 live-work condominiums for artists.  The success of this project was unrivaled in the state.

The Nathansons were leaders encouraging other artists to rehabilitate vacant buildings throughout Pawtucket and statewide. As an early advocate for mill adaptive reuse, Morris was in the forefront of developing Pawtucket as a highly visible and respected arts and entertainment center.  He led the efforts in the blue-collar community to change to zoning ordinances (locally and statewide) to assist developers to rehab vacant and underutilized mills to allow live-work spaces.

While residing in Rhode Island, Morris has lived his life on the international stage as a designer of award-winning restaurants, concert spaces, and hospitality venues. He was widely recognized as the father of modern restaurant and hospitality design.

A Prolific Fine Artist Who Made a Difference  

A lifetime member of the Providence Art Club, Morris was a highly respected and prolific fine artist, with numerous exhibitions in Providence and New York. The Pawtucket native’s paintings, prints, wood sculptures, and drawings reflect nearly a century of work, and trace his truly extraordinary and vibrant life through bold colors and iconography that pulled from personal history.

Mr. Nathanson was a founding board member of Trinity Repertory Company. One of Trinity Rep’s earliest set designers, he was also in charge of its relocation to the Emery’s Majestic Theater (now the Lederer Theater Center), which has been the theater’s home for over 50 years.   

Among his many activities in Rhode Island, Morris served as a member of the Providence Historic Commission and the Pawtucket Armory Association, he played a critical role in securing the historic armory from the State of Rhode Island and oversaw the design and build of the Sandra Feinstein Gamm Theatre and the creation the Jacqueline Walsh School for the Arts. He also offered his time and expertise to the City of Pawtucket’s Riverfront Commission, the Pawtucket 2020 Committee, the Pawtucket Foundation, and the Pawtucket Arts Collaborative.

Morris also found time to design and teach courses at the Rhode Island School of Design, and served as a design consultant to Providence Mayor Joseph Paolino Jr.  He also served as a commissioner under the direction of Antoinette Downing on the Providence Historic Commission.

Morris is the recipient of numerous personal awards and recognitions, including honorary doctorates from Johnson & Wales University and Rhode Island College. Morris has been inducted into the Pawtucket Hall of Fame, and been awarded the Pawtucket Foundation Heritage Award, the Arts and Business Council of Rhode Island’s Small Business Award, and the Pell Award from the Trinity Repertory Company for his life-time contribution to the arts. He was awarded the Paul Harris Award, Rotary’s highest honor by the Pawtucket Rotary Club.  

Morris has also been designated as a ‘Thought Leader’ by the American Society of Interior Designers, considered to be the best in the design community. 

Upon his retirement in 2008, Morris was asked by Boston University Culinary School to donate over 400 hand-drawn renderings of restaurants, hotel and resort projects, to become part of the new “Morris Nathanson Design Collection” at the Howard Gotlieb Archival Research Center.  Boston University recognized Morris’s lifelong work by calling him “the pioneer” of modern restaurant design. 

The Howard Gotlieb Archival Research Center also houses Martin Luther King’s letters, papers and archives, a fitting tribute to Morris’ years as a civil rights advocate.

With the international acclaim and recognition that Morris has received in his 95 years of living, Morris always would tell you where he comes from Pawtucket, a man who never forgot his roots.

Morris never consider himself retired; he just had a job as a full time artist.  

Morris is survived by his loving and devoted wife, Phyllis Van Orden Nathanson, and their son, John David Nathanson, and Josh Nathanson and Kim Nathanson Arsenault, from his marriage to Roxie Sgouros, along with four grandchildren, Emma, Sarah, Lily, Adrian and his sister Rachel Schuchman.

Morris’ legacy as an artist and designer lives on in his three children.  Josh and Kim are both involved in restaurant and hospitality design while John David is a following his love and passion creating animation films at DreamWorks in California.

Supporting Young Artists

Morris says that he knew that he would become an artist at the tender age of six years old, remembering that he would draw on the walls.  As he got older, he continued to sharpen his drawing skills. An elementary school teacher identified him as having artistic abilities and faculty at Tolman High School encouraged him to follow his passion for the arts.

To recognize the encouragement that Morris received throughout his schooling, Morris’s family has created “The Morris Nathanson Tribute Fund,” a scholarship supporting Rhode Island students aged K-12 to participate in Saturday youth classes at the Rhode Island School of Design (RISD) which he himself attended as a young boy.  The family hopes that the Rhode Island community will give generously to the “Morris Nathanson Tribute Fund” at RISD so that poor children with artistic talent may have the same opportunity to explore and cultivate these talents as he once did. 

Donations can be mailed to:  Morris Nathanson Scholarship Fund, Rhode Island School of Design, Office of Institutional Advancement, 20 Washington Place, Providence, RI 02903. 

By Herb Weiss and Phyllis Van Orden Nathanson

Herb Weiss, LRI -12, is a Pawtucket-based writer who has covered aging, health care and medical issues for over 43 years.  To purchase his books, Taking Charge: Collected Stories on Aging Boldly and a sequel, compiling weekly published articles, go to herbweiss.com.

Phyllis Van Orden Nathanson, wife of Morris Nathanson, continues her work as an arts advocate.

Regular Folks Give Advice to Graduates

Published in Pawtucket Times, May 23, 2014

This month, commencement speakers at Rhode Island’s Colleges and Universities will give the Class of 2014 their tips on how they can successfully find their professional niche, in a state with the distinction of having the worst employment rate in the nation and continues to be one of the last states to see an economic revival.  Rhode Islanders are also known for their inferiority complex and general attitude about the quality of life in the state.

Robed graduating seniors will sit listening closely to commencement speeches, given by very well-known lawmakers, judges, television personalities and Business CEOs, detailing their observations and advice, and how if closely followed, just might give the graduates a more rewarding personal and professional life.

 Typically a commencement speech (the length being about 10 minutes) is given by a notable, successful, stimulating figure well-known in the community, nationally or internationally. While some colleges and universities may enhance their prestige by bringing in high-profile speakers (University of Rhode Island, Rhode Island School of Design, Roger Williams University, and Providence College) sometimes at great cost, others like Brown University, unique among Ivy League institutions, features graduating seniors, rather than outside dignitaries, as their commencement speakers. This year, Rhode Island College,
under graduate and graduate commencement speakers are Rhode Islanders.

So, I say to Presidents of Colleges and Universities, with your tight budgets you can save a little money by not bringing in high paid commencement speakers. As can be seen below, there are many potential    commencement speakers in local communities throughout the state who fly below the radar screen and can give college graduates sound strategies for success gleaned from their life experiences. They give road maps on how one can live a more healthy fulfilling life, mature in a way to realize their potential and age gracefully in a challenging and quickly changing world.

Jesse Nemerofsky, 60, Providence, Professional Commercial Photographer. “Always remember that everyone you meet in life can be a potential or future client. This being said, a positive introduction of yourself is a valuable way to be called to work together on projects, even to be hired for future jobs. George H. W. Bush, 41st President of the United States, has stated in interviews that when he meets someone he gets their business card, and at birthdays, Christmas time, or when the person is honored, he sends them a personal note. By taking time to acknowledge people over the lifetime of his career, the former President is highly respected by those he has encountered, even if his political position or business venture was successful or not.   Honesty and representing your capabilities is of course of the utmost importance, and small gestures like sending a personal note can ultimately have great impact, but excellence in your work should be your main goal.”

Michael Cassidy, 66, Pawtucket, Retired. “As you go into the ‘real’ world from the sheltered ‘world of college’ don’t be too quick to judge the new people you meet in the work place.  People come in all types, sizes, shapes, temperaments, personalities, ages, and backgrounds; and they all have their own experiences from which you can learn. If you are smart enough to listen to what others have to offer, you can learn from them not only what to do, but what not to do. And most times learning what not to do is the most valuable lesson you can have.”

Olon Reeder, 55, North Providence, Reeder Associates Public Relations. “Become adaptable to constant changes in your life. Today’s global environment demands that you must become faster, better and smarter and compete with yourself and everyone else to survive socially. You have to embrace non-stop learning, empower yourself with your own resources, have an independent attitude and create value for who you really are and what you want to be to shape your quality of life for the future!”

Michelle Godin, 50, Vice President, New England Economic Development Services, Inc. “Live each day of your life with integrity. Whether in your personal life or professional life, integrity will define you as a person.  Never waiver.  When your days on earth are ended, it is your integrity that others will remember.   Those who live with integrity will be fondly remembered and missed, because with integrity comes many other admirable qualities such as compassion, empathy, tolerance, and understanding.  Those lacking integrity will be discussed with disdain and quickly forgotten.  Choose to become exemplary.”

Paul Audette, 85, Pawtucket, semi-retired businessman. “The Youth of today — from puberty to whatever age one reaches maturity – tend to see life as it pertains to them, yet each person is responsible for him or herself.  While the youth may have the knowledge, they lack the life experience which is the main factor in making good sound judgments that ultimately affect (your) well-being as well as that of your loved ones. While experience cannot be taught, it cannot be overlooked as a major component in making sound decisions that affect your future.experience comes from living – and life is a journey.”

Joan Retsinas, 67, Providence, a writer. “Savor, savor, savor. Savor the sunshine, and the rain. Savor your friends, your family, your colleagues. Nurture the people close to you. Be a friend. Fall in love. If you fall out of love, fall in again. Read “Winnie the Pooh” to a child. Eat ice cream. Ride a bike. Swim in the ocean. Laugh. As for fame, fortune, and success, don’t fret. They don’t really matter.”

Rick Wahlberg, 61, Senior Project Manager, Blue Cross & Blue Shield of Rhode Island. Be Useful, there is no feeling like making the world a better place. Be Aware, strike a balance between career, family, friends, and community. Be Grateful for what you have, don’t be jealous of what you don’t have, and share.

Wendy Jencks, 61, Cumberland, Visitor Center Manager, Blackstone Valley Visitor Center. “There may be a time in young people’s lives when they are nervous to take a risk, don’t be afraid to take a chance. If an opportunity/life experience arises and you want it, take it even if it is unconventional. You may not get another opportunity again. Also, a person’s first job is not the end all be all. Your dream job may actually be something you did not study. People confine themselves to their own walls.”

Larry Sullivan, 49, Pawtucket, Director, Net Compliance Solution’s technical & consulting services. “Recognize opportunity. If you can’t identify opportunities, then they are very likely to sneak past you unnoticed. Most people’s search criteria is so narrow in focus that it can essentially blind them to opportunities available right in front of their face. It’s the old “can’t see the forest for the trees” scenario. Also, see yourself as a valuable asset. Your self-image will make a huge difference in the type of opportunities you attract to yourself. If you see yourself as a valuable asset, and you present yourself as such, others will see you that way as well.”

Denise Panichas, 50, Woonsocket, Executive Director of The Samaritans of Rhode Island. “Respect cannot be given when asked for, it has to be earned.” This is something you learn later in life. How do you earn respect from those around you? By being true to yourself – your values, beliefs and most importantly to your commitments to family, friends and the community.”

Ken McGill, 51, Pawtucket, Register of Voters, City of Pawtucket. “Find time to give back to your community. In the years to come you will be looking for a good job, getting married, having children and getting on with life. Never forget those in need in your community. Mentoring children, giving time to a soup kitchen, volunteering to help civic groups in your city or town or just helping a neighbor will give you more reward than any salary or position in the corporate world.“

Gail Solomon, 59, Pawtucket, Gail Solomon, Inc., a graphic design company. “You’re not the most unqualified or least knowledgeable person in the room. Everyone else thinks they are. And anyway it’s much more elegant to ask questions than to behave like you know all the answers. Because nobody does. Ever.”

Susan Sweet, 72, Rumford, former state administrator, non- profit lobbyist and advocate. “In the short space that we are in the world, we must create meaning in our lives by contributing to the happiness and well-being of other people and other sentient beings. To do good and useful work, caring and acting for the betterment of others is the true goal of life.”

Bob Billington, President of the Blackstone Valley Tourism Council who received his Doctorate in Education from Johnson & Wales University in 2005, says that “Star Power Sells” when seeking out a commencement speaker. “We have regular people walking amongst us who do very extraordinary things everyday but they may never get a chance to give a commencement speech at a college or university,” he notes.

If so, I say that it’s a shame.

Herb Weiss, LRI ’12, is a writer who covers aging, health care and medical issues. He can be reached at hweissri@aol.com.