Older adults attract scammers with popularity of cyberdating

Published in RINewsToday on February 10, 2025

Digital technology is not just a way to find information and news, shop, or even search and apply for jobs.  For older single adults, getting back into the dating scene can be difficult. It could be after a divorce, or death of a spouse, or just deciding some years too late that having a mate is something desirable at this time of your life.

Dating rules have changed since years ago. But, since the mid-1990s, when Match.com, the world’s first online dating website was launched, millions have utilized internet dating as a way to meet potential partners without leaving their home.

Today, online dating, sometimes referred to as cyber-dating, has replaced traditional ways (like belonging to civic groups, clubs and attending church) singles use to find that special person.

Even though many might consider on-line dating a crap shoot in finding that perfect person to spend the rest of your life with, a growing number of older adults are using online dating platforms.  And many, unfortunately, are falling for online dating scams, as well.

A Snapshot of Older Online Daters

Last July, an article penned by Olivia Sidoti, research assistant, and Michelle Favero, research associate at Pew Research Center, provided an analysis of how older adults experience dating sites and apps and their views of online dating.

The data, obtained from a survey conducted in July of 2022,  was taken from a 74-page report, “From Looking for Love to Swiping the Field: Online Dating in the U.S., released on Feb. 2, 2023.

According to the Pew study, about a quarter of older Americans in their 50s have used an online dating site, compared to 14% percent in their 60s and 12% in their 70s and older.

However, just 3% of the older respondents are currently using online dating platforms or have used them with the last year, compared with 15% of those under age 50.

The Pew study found that 6% of the respondents over age 50 who were married, living with a partner or in a committed relationship, found their significant other online.

With so many dating sites and apps available to choose from, the survey findings indicate that about 1 in 5 online daters have used Tinder.

About half of the adults age 50 and over cite seeking a long-term partner or spouse as the reason they have online dated in the past year. Meanwhile, about 36% say they want to date casually, with 22% saying their motivation is casual sex.

The researchers found that women aged 50 and over are more likely than males who use a dating site or app to say their dating experiences have been negative.

About half of the online daters ages 50 and over say they have encountered someone who they thought was trying to scam them.  Furthermore, about four-in-ten online daters ages 50 and older (45%) report unwanted behaviors while seeking a date online. Specifically, they were sent sexually explicit content they didn’t ask for (33%), and 26% were continually contacted after they expressed disinterest. Seventeen percent of the older users report they were called offensive names, and 4% were physically threatened.

Protecting Yourself When Online Dating           

According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC), nearly one in four individuals older than age 65 are considered socially isolated. Older adults are at risk of isolation and loneliness due to living alone, loss of family and friends, chronic illness and hearing loss.  

CDC says that there are also physical health risks as well. Those dangers include significantly increased chances of an early death, 50% increased risk of dementia, 29% increase in the likelihood of developing heart disease and a 32% higher chance of having a stroke.  

There’s a Class for that!

With so many older adults not having meaningful relationships with their family or without having a significant partner, Sun City, Arizona-based Banner Olive Branch Senior Center offered a class covering the basics of finding love and companionship online.    

“We feel this is an important topic to address because there are many seniors [in our community] who are alone,” says Jackie Cromer of Banner Olive Branch and instructor of the online dating class held last April. “It’s an approach to add some fun and excitement into their lives and allow seniors to feel connected and potentially even find love,”  she said.

The class covered which dating sites to select, how to write and choose photos for your dating profile, the best ways to find and connect with potential matches, how to handle rejection, and emphasized safety tips such as not giving personal information, meeting in a public place, transporting yourself to the date and letting loved ones know your whereabouts. 

Tips on Protecting Yourself Against Romance Scams

As a growing number of older adults go online to search for that special person, scammers take advantage of these individuals. According to the Federal Trade Commission (FTC), in 2022 almost 70,000 people reported being a victim of a romance scam.

Be aware of “red flag” indicators of a potential romance scam, when approached on a dating site, warns Home Security Investigations (HSI), the principal investigative arm of the U.S. Department of Homeland Security, noting that scammers seek to gain the victim’s trust and then provide false information or misrepresentation to gain a financial benefit.

Here is some advice from Home Security Investigations (HSI):

HSI urges older online daters to watch out for the following indicators of a potential romance scam, when a potential partner:  

·         Claims they live, work or are traveling abroad.

o    Lacks proper grammar, although they claim to speak English.

·         Claims to be notably younger than you.

·         Quickly professes love to you.

·         Has a story that is inconsistent.

·         Has a minimal online presence.

·         Sends general photos (mostly fake/AI generated) of themselves traveling, shopping, or dining at luxurious locations.

o    Sends or requests explicit photos or videos.

·         Mentions the idea of meeting and being together soon.

·         Provides periodic excuses for being unable to make a video call (e.g., Facetime).

o    If a video call happens, you’re unable to see their face clearly.

·         Requests to have conversations/texts be moved to a separate app (e.g., WhatsApp, Telegram).
Asks for money, often via non-traditional methods such as cryptocurrency or gift cards.

o    Asks if you’ve ever invested in cryptocurrency and/or foreign exchange market.

o  Sends a business link of a cryptocurrency and/or foreign exchange trading platform.

o    Is combative with you or tries to divert your attention when you question their intentions.

Lastly, if your bank contacts you to express concern you are being victimized, this is perhaps the most significant red flag that you are being targeted.

You can also call the AARP Fraud Watch Network Helpline at 1-877-908-3360 to talk with a trained specialist about protecting yourself when seeking a relationship on a dating site.

Matchmaker, Matchmaker, make me a match!

Many are now saying that the most successful way to find that appropriate partner is to be introduced to her/him by someone you know – be that family or friend. And, while not plentiful, and sometimes expensive, matchmaking services that match you up for a date, one on one, are around, even in Rhode Island. The good part is they will coach you on what to where, what to talk about if it’s been awhile since you had a date-convo, and if after the date, it doesn’t work out, they will handle the uncomfortableness of that conversation with the other party – and keep working on your behalf. Some matchmaking services advertise on local radio, and that may be a good place to start. All the rules of scams and checking out the company or person are still advisable, of course – ask for references!

And let us know how it goes – until then – Happy Valentine’s Day (week)!

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Spotlight on scams and frauds targeting older Americans 

Published in RINewsToday on September 23, 2024 

Although the U.S. Senate Special Committee on Aging, initially established in 1961 as a temporary committee, later becoming a permanent Senate Committee in 1977, has no legislative authority, it studies an array of issues related to older Americans. Last week, U.S. Senator Bob Casey (D-PA), Chairman of the U.S. Senate Special Committee on Aging, held a full Committee Hearing, taking a look at an important issue impacting older Americans, the rampant increase of scams and frauds.

The hearing entitled “Fighting Fraud: How Scammers are Stealing from Older Adults,” lasting over one hour and thirty minutes, highlighted the psychological and economic impacts that frauds and scams have older adults, who are disproportionately targeted by fraudsters.

During the hearing, held on Sep. 19, Casey unveiled the Aging Committee’s 9th annual Fraud Book, “Fighting Fraud: Scams to Watch Out For.” The 93-page book, hot off the press, provides seniors with an overview of the most prevalent scams to help them identify and avoid being victimized. The Fraud Book also contains valuable resources for scam victims.

At this hearing, Casey also touched on the 2017 Republican tax law, called “Scammed Then Taxed,”which details how the law’s repeal of the theft loss deduction has imposed significant taxes on many scam victims.

The 91-page Majority Staff Report details the results of a months-long investigation examining how the removal of the casualty and theft loss tax deduction—repealed by Republicans in the 2017 tax law has devastated many American fraud victims.

This report details how some older adults—who lose the most to frauds and scams—are now facing huge tax bills on top of losing all their assets, leading them to feel as though they have been victimized twice.

According to the report, for a century, the theft loss deduction allowed taxpayers who experienced theft to receive a tax deduction to offset their losses. The repeal of this provision has meant that fraud victims are now often obligated to pay taxes on money that has been stolen.

Keeping Scammers from Stealing from Older Adults

In his opening statement, Casey stated: “At today’s hearing, we heard tragic stories from scam victims and law enforcement about how fraudsters are getting more sophisticated and aggressive with their scams and throwing the lives of older adults into chaos.” The Pennsylvania Senator stressed the importance of educating older adults about the threats they face from frauds and scams.

Casey rattled off a list of common scams, detailed in the released Fraud Book, including grandparent scams, investment scams, tech support scams, to name just a few.

With the advent of Artificial Intelligence, scammers have now gotten even more sophisticated, especially by cloning the voice, warned Casey, making their phone and online message even more convincing to the older victim.

“That may explain why recent FBI data shows that fraud losses among older adults have gone up in recent years – reaching $3.4 billion in 2023,” says Casey.

Casey also called for more resources to be provided to persons who have been victimized by scams, including those who have been forced to pay taxes on money they’ve lost due to changes in the 2017 Republican tax law.

Like Casey, in his opening statement Ranking Member Mike Braun (R- Indiana) also stressed the need to prioritize education and outreach to older adults help them to recognize red flags that warn of scams.

“Our community banks and credit unions are often the first line of defense intervening on transactions that just don’t add up,” says Braun. “In my home state of Indiana, one community bank has been able to stop over $1.2 million worth of scams this year,” he notes.

According to Braun, last year Medicare lost an estimated $60 billion due to fraud, errors, and abuse. “Every dollar lost to fraud is a dollar that can be spent on vital programs for American seniors,” he says.

The Indiana Senator noted that he has requested the U.S. Government Accountability Office (GAO) to initiate a full audit of Medicare fraud. The GAO has begun its audit in July, says Braun, noting it to be the most comprehensive audit in Medicare’s history.

And Braun expects the GAO investigation to uncover “how much fraudsters are stealing from the American taxpayer” and to revamp the current Medicare Fraud Prevention System to reduce fraud taking place. 

Witnesses testifying before Senate Aging Committee

Casey invited Susan Whittaker, an Administrative Assistant at Lehigh County Aging and Adult Services in Allentown, Pennsylvania, to testify at the hearing about her late husband’s experience as a QuickBooks scam victim.  At the time of the scam, Bill, 75, suffered from dementia along with other chronic conditions.

Susan told Senators that her husband had received an email receipt on Tuesday, that appeared to be from QuickBooks. It claimed that a software upgrade fee of $499 had been charged to the business account that Bill used to manage his son’s company.  He knew that he hadn’t purchased this upgrade.  Calling the company and requesting a refund, he was told to pay $500 upfront, thru a created Venmo account, install an application on his computer and provide personal financial information.  Once done, Bill would get his money back.

On Friday, by the time Susan had learned about the financial transaction, $28,000 had been withdrawn from their accounts. Although the bank ultimately recovered $8,000 the following week, $20,000 was gone — money that her husband was planning to use to buy medications.  And he lost his job, too.

“This scam was devastating and had a devastating effect on Bill—both financially (losing $20,000) and emotionally,” stated Susan, forcing her husband to begin rationing his medications.

“We just couldn’t afford them [medications] anymore… He also lost his sense of self-worth. I was really sad to see this very intelligent and past business owner, become so afraid to read emails and use a phone. It was a huge setback for him, and I think contributed to his worsening health conditions…he stopped living,” said Susan.  

Kathy Stokes, Director of AARP’s Fraud Prevention Program, told Senators that there has been a “meteoric” growth in fraud crimes. When considering fraud that goes unreported, Stokes noted that the Federal Trade Commission estimated the cost of fraud at $137 billion in 2022.  But most fraud experts say that this is far higher than the $ 8.9 billion in losses reported that year, she added.

Beyond educating seniors about fraud prevention thru the sharing of information online at aarp.org/fraudwatchnetwork, AARP covers the issue in AARP the MagazineAARP Bulletin, biweekly emails or text ‘watchdog alert newsletter,” and on its podcast “A Perfect Story,” notes Stokes.

“Beyond education, AARP is unique in its focus on supporting victims of fraud and their families,” says Stokes, noting that its Fraud Watch Network Helpline receives 500 calls a day.

“Addressing fraud requires more than piecemeal solutions; it demands a whole-of-society approach,” warns Stokes. “But together, educators, policymakers, law enforcement and industry can turn the tide against vicious crime gangs who hold the power right now. Together we can disrupt their business model, protect millions of consumers, and keep billions of dollars in saving and retirement accounts and in our economy,” she says.

“Currently, we are all failing the very people who need us the most: older adults- m any of whom can’t afford to lose anything, let everything. We are failing in our most basic duties to protect those in their golden years who are living off their nest eggs they worked for their entire lives and who are beyond the ability to rejoin the workforce to make the money back,” charged Scott Pirrello, who oversees the San Diego District Attorney’s Office’s Elder Abuse Prosecution. 

“Too many very well intended programs are not implemented in a way to truly impact the tsunami of fraud that we are facing each day,” he said.

Pirrello told the Senators about the success of the Elder Justice Task Force (EJTF), created by his office, working with the San Diego FBI, to combat elder fraud. Oversea scammers depended on organized networks of money launders operating in the United States, he said, noting that EJTF worked to disrupt these networks.

Like the other witness, Pirrello called for investing in education, as well as adequately fund task forces like the EJTF, to fight against scammers.

One of the biggest crimes affecting Medicare beneficiaries and persons with disabilities is Medicare fraud, waste and abuse, says Nancy Gilmer Moore, who works for the Indiana Association of Area Agencies on Aging managing its Senior Medicare Program. “Health care experts estimate improper Medicare payments are approximately $ 60 billion a year,” she says.

Gilmer Moore admitted to the Senate Aging Panel that she was personally the target of the “Intermittent Urinary Catheter fraud scheme.  Medicare paid the fraudsters $1,500 a month (for supplies never ordered) before she noticed it on her statement. Moore ultimately reported the suspicious claims to Centers for Medicare and Medicaid Services and requested a new Medicare number since her number was compromised.

“Be on the lookout for duplicate billing, services or products not rendered or received and services not ordered by their physicians,” urged Gilmer Moore, noting that beneficiaries and caregivers should never give their Medicare number or financial information over the telephone to an unknown called.  Medicare does not make. unsolicited phone calls.

For information on fraud prevention, go to aarp.org/fraudwatchnetwork.

To download a copy of the 2024 Fraud Book, go to https://www.aging.senate.gov/imo/media/doc/2024_fraud_book_english.pdf.

To watch the Senate Aging Panel’s hearing on fighting fraud, go to https://www.aging.senate.gov/hearings/fighting-fraud-how-scammers-are-stealing-from-older-adults.

To see the Majority Staff Report, “Scammed Then Taxed,” go to

https://www.casey.senate.gov/news/releases/scammed-then-taxed-casey-unveils-new-report-showing-how-republican-tax-law-further-devastated-scam-victims

Senate Aging Committee tackles AI generated scams

Published in RINewsToday on January 8, 2024

Over two months ago, U.S. Senate Special Committee on Aging Chairman, Bob Casey (D-PA), put the spotlight on Artificial Intelligence (AI) driven fraud and scams. During the Nov. 16 hearing held in SD-106, “Modern Scams: How Scammers Are Using Artificial Intelligence & How We Can Fight Back,” the Senate panel highlighted the most common scams targeting seniors in 2023 with a focus on how scammers are using AI to create voice-clones and deep fakes to deploy scams and convince targets of their veracity. The hearing also explored how AI is being used to enhance fraud detection technology.

During the Senate panel hearing, lasting one hour and a half, Chairman Casey announced the Senate Aging Committee’s release of its annual Fraud Book, and brochure on AI-powered  scams and a bookmark featuring tips to avoid scams. Chairman Casey also noted he would approach the Federal Trade Commission (FTC) to request information about the agency’s work to track the use of AI scams targeted to older Americans.  On Dec. 5, Casey sent a letter to the FTC urging the agency to track AI scams.

Senate Panel Takes a Look at AI’s Good and Bad

“Today, we heard disturbing testimony about scammers using artificial intelligence to make their ploys more life-like and convincing,” said Chairman Casey in his opening remarks. “Any consumer, no matter their age, gender, or background, can fall victim  to these ultra-convincing scams, and the stories we heard today from individuals across the country are heartbreaking. As a parent and grandparent, I relate to the fear and concern these victims must feel. Federal action is needed to put up guardrails to protect consumers from AI—while also empowering those that can use it for good,” he said.

At the Senate Panel hearing, Ranking Member Mike Braun of Indiana warned that an increasing number of sophisticated fraudsters are carrying out AI attacks on seniors by utilizing voice-cloning and deepfakes to create images nearly identical to a real-live  person to dupe consumers into giving away valuable information and money.

“In context of frauds and scams, AI can be leverage negatively – but it can also be part of the solution,” says Braun.

According to Braun, the private sector has used AI and machine learning since the 1990s to combat fraud.  He called on the federal government to embrace similar technology by testing promising solutions to systems that suffer the most fraud, like Medicare.

Gary Schildhorn, a Philadelphia attorney told the Senate panel about his story of an attempted scam against him where his son’s voice was cloned by AI.  When he received a call that sounded like his son Brett, saying he had been in a car accident and needed $9,000 to post bail, he almost fell for the scam.

“There was no doubt in my mind that it was his voice on the phone—it was the exact cadence with which he speaks.  I sat motionless in my car just trying to process these events. How did they get my son’s voice? The only conclusion I can come up with is that they used artificial intelligence, or AI, to clone his voice…it is manifestly apparent that this technology… provide a risk-less avenue for fraudsters to prey on us,” says Schildhorn.

In his testimony, Steve Weisman, an Amherst attorney with Margolis, Bloom & D’Agostino who teaches white-collar crime at Bentley College in Waltham, pointed to the Federal Trade Commission’s Consumer Sentinel report for 2022, revealing that seniors reported more than $1.6 billion in losses to frauds and scams. But the actual amount could be as high as $48.4 billion, he says, because many were afraid to report losing money due to embarrassment or sham.

Seniors Tempting Target to AI Scammers

Seniors are the target of scammers because “that is where the money is,” notes Weisman, because they may have a “life time of accumulated savings that make them a tempting target for scammers.”

According to Weisman, AI has created additional opportunities for phone call scams,  because it can be used to remove foreign accents from scammers voices, making them appear more reliable.  AI created Robocall scripts can enable conversations with the scammer’s targeted victims, too.  Finally, AI cloning technology can make the targeted victim below they are talking to a loved one.

Weisman says that AI can be used by scammers to set up social media bots that appear to come from “real” people.  This allows them to create large numbers of believable bots to promote numerous scams, particularly involving cryptocurrency.

Scammers are now using AI technology more effectively in romance and family emergency scams, too, warns Weisman. 

AI can create fake profiles on multiple dating platforms, writing a grammatically correct biography, making it easier for scammers in foreign countries who are not familiar with speaking English. AI can also create photos or deepfakes for the profile, he says.

Weisman told the panel that AI generating software can create an audio voice that sounds exactly like that of the grandchild, using as little as 30 seconds worth of the grandchild’s voice.

Seeking a Balanced Approach

“The interplay of AI and scams brings forth both challenges and opportunities. Striking a careful balance between fostering AI innovations and protecting vulnerable populations is paramount,” says Dr. Tahir Ekin, of the San Marcus, Texas -based McCoy College of Business.

“In the fight against AI driven scams, awareness and AI literacy are crucial weapons,” says Ekin. “Existing efforts that educate seniors on safe digital practices, such as the work FTC Federal Advisory Council and the “Pass It On” campaign, can be enhanced to include AI related scams,” he says.

Tom Romanoff, Director, Technology at the Washington, DC-based Bipartisan Policy Center, stated, “As the good of this technology is being explored, we must acknowledge AI’s risks and seek a balanced approach, focusing on curtailing abuse while promoting positive uses and innovations.”

“As I stated in the beginning, we must tackle the abuse while driving toward positive application to safeguard its adoption,” says Romanoff.

To view the Senate Aging hearing, held on Nov. 16, go to: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7CMhzgQdz_I.

For a copy of Fighting Fraud: Top Scams in 2022,  go to https://www.aging.senate.gov/imo/media/doc/fraud_book_2023__english.pdf